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        • Alexa Tyler, MSW, RCSW, RPT, CPT
        • Richard A. Marquez, MSW, RSW
        • Silvia Eleftheriou, MEd, R.Psych. (ab, bc)
      • Ontario Therapists >
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        • Fatima Noorali, MACP, CCC, RP (AB, BC, ON)
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Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

The First Step is Reaching Out

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Professional Support for BPD


Living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) or intense emotional ups and downs can feel overwhelming. The intensity of emotions, difficulties in relationships, and struggles with self-image can make daily life challenging. But with the right support, healing is possible. 

​If you're ready to take control of your mental health and build a life with more stability, confidence, and self-compassion, we're here to help.

What is BPD?

BPD usually emerges in late adolescence or early adulthood, and is commonly associated with chronically invalidating experiences in childhood (e.g. needs repeatedly unmet or repeatedly criticized, minimized, or dismissed), leading to a disorganized and unstable sense of self and identity.

Stigma and misdiagnoses

Women seeking help for emotional distress have often been overdiagnosed with BPD, while the same behaviours in men are not. People with BPD are often mislabelled as "difficult," "overly emotional," or "attention-seeking," hindering care and treatment. Getting an assessment with a BPD-informed therapist can be crucial to helping you get support for a healthier, happier life.  

Common BPD symptoms

A pattern of intense and unstable relationships, impulsive behaviours, mood swings, feelings of anger, emptiness, fear of abandonment, paranoia or dissociation, an unstable self image or identity, or self harming behaviours or suicidal ideation can all be potential symptoms of BPD.

Treatment strategies

BPD is not a life sentence. With the right support, such as DBT, mindfulness based and trauma informed therapy, you can expect significant improvement from symptoms, learn and practice effective coping strategies, develop a more secure sense of self, and build and maintain healthy relationships. The first step toward cultivating a more fulfilling and satisfying life, is reaching out for support.
Ultimately, the goal of BPD healing is not just symptom management, but a deeper sense of self-awareness, self-acceptance, and the capacity to connect with others in a more authentic and fulfilling way.

- Janina Fisher​

Trauma-Informed Counselling for Borderline Personality Disorder


Therapy for BPD can help you foster a more fulfilling and stable life. Gain insight into your experiences, learn effective ways of coping and managing symptoms, develop healthier relationships, build resilience, and strengthen your sense of who you are authentically. You're not alone. Seeking help is the first step toward a healthier, happier life. Get in touch with us to get started today.
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What you can do


Does it feel like your emotions are constantly in overdrive? Do you find yourself overreacting, fearing abandonment, or struggling with relationships?

Living with BPD can feel like being caught in a storm--one moment everything seems fine, the next you're overwhelmed by emotions you can’t control. People may call you “too sensitive” or “too much”, but they don’t understand how exhausting it is to feel so deeply all the time.

​At Deep Sea Psychology, we provide expert counselling for BPD and related emotional challenges by video call across Alberta, B.C., and Ontario, so that you can regain control, confidence, and emotional balance--wherever you are.

1. Online Personality Assessment 
For those seeking clarity about whether you might be experiencing BPD related symptoms, we offer general personality disorder assessments with experienced psychologists in Alberta and Ontario. If you're unsure whether BPD or another personality-related concern is affecting your life, our psychologists can provide an assessment to guide your treatment plan.

2. Online Therapy for BPD for Long-term Relief
Our licensed therapists offer personalized, evidence-based, compassionate therapy to help you:
✅ Regulate emotions so they don't control you, and reduce emotional distress
✅ Stop feeling like you're "too much" or "not enough"
✅ Develop healthier, more stable relationships
✅ Overcome impulsive behaviors and self-sabotage
✅ Build self-acceptance and inner confidence
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3. Online DBT Skills Group To Build Emotional Stability, Resilience and Community Connections
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) is an effective, research-backed treatment that was originally developed specifically as a treatment for BPD as a supplement or add-on to one-on-one therapy. Our Online DBT Skills Group focuses on offering on the following four core areas of DBT to enhance your one-on-one BPD therapy or as a stand-alone crash course in essential skills that will help you feel more in control, no matter what life throws at you:

🔹 Mindfulness – Learn to pause before reacting and gain better control over emotions.
🔹 Distress Tolerance – Develop strategies to stay calm in high-stress situations.
🔹 Emotional Regulation – Understand what triggers intense emotions and manage them more effectively.
🔹 Interpersonal Effectiveness – Improve communication and relationship stability.
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BPD Assessment

Do you wonder if you're living with undiagnosed BPD? A mental health assessment can help you clarify and contextualize your experiences and get you started on the right track toward a healthier, happier life.
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BPD Counselling

Counselling is proven effective for helping adults and relationships affected by BPD. Gain insight, develop adaptive coping strategies, and cultivate a more fulfilling life for yourself and your loved ones.
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Online DBT Skills Group

Join a specialized online DBT Skills Group for structured guidance on building emotional stability and resilience, build on and practice new skills and strategies to address BPD symptoms and core wounds, and connect with likeminded people who are committed to their own personal growth and development.
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Therapy can improve symptoms for over 75% of people diagnosed with BPD

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Virtual Therapy for BPD: What to Expect


Whether you’re struggling with emotional regulation, self-image, impulsivity, or unstable relationships, we create a therapy plan that works for you.
🔹 Emotional Regulation & Distress Tolerance
  • Learn to manage overwhelming emotions and break free from emotional rollercoasters.
  • Develop coping strategies for intense sadness, anxiety, and anger.
🔹 Identity & Self-Image Stability
  • Strengthen self-awareness and self-acceptance to improve confidence and self-esteem.
  • Reduce feelings of emptiness, confusion, and self-doubt.
🔹 Relationship & Attachment Support
  • Improve communication and boundary-setting to create more stable, fulfilling relationships.
  • Address fear of abandonment, attachment wounds, and conflict resolution.
🔹 Mindfulness & Cognitive Restructuring
  • Increase self-awareness and emotional control through mindfulness techniques.
  • Identify and shift unhelpful thought patterns that fuel emotional distress.


​Who Can Benefit from BPD Therapy?
Borderline Personality Disorder online counselling is designed for individuals who:
✔ Struggle with intense emotions and mood swings that impact their daily life.
✔ Have difficulty maintaining stable relationships due to emotional reactivity or fear of abandonment.
✔ Experience identity confusion or chronic feelings of emptiness.
✔ Engage in impulsive behaviors or self-destructive patterns.
✔ Feel stuck in cycles of emotional distress, anger, or sadness.
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If you resonate with any of the above, our expert BPD therapy can provide the structure, support, and tools you need to regain balance in your life.


​How Online BPD Therapy Works
With our 100% virtual therapy model, you get expert BPD counselling from experienced, qualified, culturally responsive and compassionate professionals without the hassle of commuting.
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📅 Flexible Scheduling – Sessions designed to fit your busy lifestyle.
📍 Accessible Across Alberta, BC & Ontario – Get expert help no matter where you are.
🔒 Secure & Confidential – PIPA & PIDA-compliant, bank-level-encrypted online therapy for your privacy.
💡 Highly Qualified Therapists – Work with specialized, compassionate professionals who understand the complexities of BPD.
​🎯 Evidence-Based & Holistic Mind-Body Treatment, Not Just Talk Therapy – We integrate a variety of research-backed and trauma-informed approaches for real, lasting change.
🌍 Culturally Responsive & Anti-Oppressive Care – We respect your background, identity, and lived experiences, ensuring a supportive, judgment-free therapy environment.
👥​One-On-One Focused Care –  ​our therapists aren’t overworked, distracted, or split between too many clients, so you can trust that your therapist is fully present, engaged, and committed to delivering high-quality, expert care—because you deserve it.

Borderline Personality Disorder FAQs


Is online therapy effective for treating bpd?
Yes! Online therapy is just as effective as in-person therapy for BPD when provided by qualified, experienced therapists. Our video-based sessions allow for real-time interaction, emotional attunement, and personalized guidance—without the hassle of commuting.​
Can i do both one-on-one therapy & group Thearpy at the same time?
Absolutely! Many people find that combining individual therapy with a DBT Skills Group gives them the best of both worlds--personalized attention in one-on-one sessions and structured skill-building in a supportive group setting.

do i need a diagnosis to start therapy for bpd?
No, you don’t need a formal diagnosis to begin therapy. If you relate to BPD symptoms--intense emotions, unstable relationships, impulsivity, and fear of abandonment—you can benefit from therapy even without an official diagnosis.

can bpd be treated without medication?
Yes! While some individuals find medication helpful for managing symptoms like anxiety or depression, therapy is the gold standard for treating BPD.
what's the difference between bpD & Complex trauma?
BPD and complex PTSD (C-PTSD) share similarities, such as emotional dysregulation and relationship struggles, but they have different root causes. A trauma-informed therapist can help you determine what’s affecting you and create a tailored treatment plan.
will i always struggle with bpd symptoms?
No! With the right therapy, you can learn to regulate your emotions, build healthy relationships, and feel more stable and in control. Many people with BPD lead fulfilling, balanced lives with the right support.

can i recover from bpd?
Yes! Studies show that most people with BPD see significant improvement with therapy, especially with trauma-informed approaches. With the right skills and support, you can reduce symptoms, improve relationships, and live a more fulfilling life.

how long does bpd therapy take?
The length of therapy depends on your individual needs, but many people see significant improvement in 6–12 months of consistent therapy. Long-term therapy may be beneficial for deeper healing and maintaining progress. ​Some individuals benefit from longer-term therapy for deeper healing and skill reinforcement, but most experience meaningful progress within the first year.
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      • Alberta Therapists >
        • Adam Elkestawi, MA, Provisional Psychologist
        • Dr. Alyssa Louw, RPsych
        • Dr. Danielle Lefebvre, RPsych
        • Jessica Roberts, BSc, Mental Health Therapist
        • Lorelei Hoyt, MA, R.Psych.
        • Mary Etem Mbiatem, MACP, RPsych
        • Misha Waheed, MC, RPsych
        • Dr. Natashya Sherbot-Stronach, PhD. RPsych
        • Dr. Prabh Parmar, PsyD, RPsych
        • Tammy Auten-Dye, MEd, RPsych
        • Dr. Trent Leighton, RPsych
      • B.C. Therapists >
        • Alexa Tyler, MSW, RCSW, RPT, CPT
        • Richard A. Marquez, MSW, RSW
        • Silvia Eleftheriou, MEd, R.Psych. (ab, bc)
      • Ontario Therapists >
        • Dr. Alyssa Louw, RPsych
        • Fatima Noorali, MACP, CCC, RP (AB, BC, ON)
        • Jean Chen, MSW, RSW
    • Types of Therapy >
      • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
      • Anti-Oppressive Therapy
      • Art Therapy
      • Attachment Based Therapy
      • Client-Centered Therapy
      • Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
      • Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)
      • EMDR Therapy
      • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
      • Hakomi Therapy
      • Internal Family System - IFS Therapy
      • Mindfulness Based Therapy
    • Areas of Expertise >
      • Anxiety Disorders & OCD
      • Depression & Bipolar Disorders
      • Trauma & Stress Disorders
      • ADHD
      • Borderline (BPD)
      • Parenting Support
    • Fees for Services >
      • Direct-Billing
      • Alberta Fees for Services
      • B.C. Fees for Services
      • Ontario Fees for Services
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    • Counselling >
      • Adult Counselling
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      • Family Counselling
      • Youth Counselling
      • Indigenous Mental Health
      • Reduced Cost Services
    • Psychological Assessments
    • In-Person Counselling in Kamloops
    • DBT Skills Group
  • Contact Us
    • Booking Appointments Online
  • Book Now